Are you a "shallow hal"?


Are you a "shallow hal"?  

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  1. 1. Are you a "shallow hal"?

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  On 05/01/2016 at 20:34, shockz said:

Yes, depending on the context anyways. Along with a beautiful soul, you have to be be attractive if I want a relationship with you.

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Ya while a good personality is great, I prefer to have some attraction too.

  On 05/01/2016 at 20:34, shockz said:

Yes. Sorry, but along with a beautiful soul, you have to be be attractive.

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That is the thing tho...what you may not find attractive, someone else may.  So really depends on the person.  I also have known some people who had a more attractive personality than looks.  Made all the difference.  I also find the most attractive who are bad people, unattractive.

 

With that said, if I find someone really unattractive physically (talking personally), personality does not make a difference really.  Friendship, sure but nothing romantic.   Some may think that is wrong but again, people are attractive to different things.  And anyone who tells you that looks do not matter, are kidding themselves.  Looks matter, to a point.

Went out for a drink with a girl one time, smoking hot thin little body and some nice small perky ######, but FACKING UGGGGGLY Personality!

 

We get to the 2nd bar and after a certain hour (11pm) they serve he hard mixed drink in plastic... be she started making a hissy fit about how she pays for glass and how she was a bar tender for 12 years. It was embarrassing.

 

Then when the first bar wouldn't take a credit card she starts swearing and goes over to the ATM that he points to and after seeing the with drawl charge you can hear her yell ######"  all the way to the bar.

  On 05/01/2016 at 20:44, warwagon said:

Went out for a drink with a girl one time, smoking hot thin little body and some nice small perky ######, but FACKING UGGGGGLY Personality!

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I had a joke planned for that comment...but dont want to be to mean  :p

 

But I agree, bad personalities mess it up.  I have talked to women were have showed signs of racism and other bad qualities.  I was like "no thanks"

  On 05/01/2016 at 20:46, techbeck said:

I had a joke planned for that comment...but dont want to be to mean  :p

 

But I agree, bad personalities mess it up.  I have talked to women were have showed signs of racism and other bad qualities.  I was like "no thanks"

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At a party, my drunken gf got other people to sing racist chants.

 

Someone complained to the school and we all got sent to judicial affairs. :wacko:

  On 08/01/2016 at 05:13, Shiranui said:

Namely?

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She understands my financial situation.

 

She does expect me to put effort into our relationship (take her out to carnivals, to fairs, etc. and give her attention), but she doesn't expect me to buy her expensive gifts, expensive dinners, etc.

Needs a fourth option of "Maybe"..

For me, it's a combination of things. Sure, she's gotta have some good looks to her, but thigh gap doesn't mean squat to me. The lady I'm speaking with now, has no thigh gap and I love it. I would prefer a physically fit girl, but it's not set in stone. The biggest thing for me, is how they speak to others, treat others, and intelligence. I've been on about 30 dates in the last 18 months, and about 15 of them wanted a free dinner.

 

I'm beginning to think that most of society is a "Shallow Hal". People judge to quickly and assume the worst. I've had lots of women tell me I'm too nice of a guy, or I'm deprived of the bedroom scene and I won't be of any use to them. The other thing is, people don't bother telling you "Sorry, I'm not interested" they just stop talking to you. Grow some balls and act your age, we aren't 12.

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