aaron901 Posted March 14, 2004 Share Posted March 14, 2004 How about [go for a drive].dude~~~ your lover is cuuuuuuuute! (Y) just go for a lunch and talk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xistor Posted March 14, 2004 Share Posted March 14, 2004 depends how you drive, if i let a girl in my car first date with me driving she might pass out o.O Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blackcoffee Posted March 14, 2004 Share Posted March 14, 2004 Yeah bro take her out for some lunch :p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+John Teacake MVC Posted March 14, 2004 MVC Share Posted March 14, 2004 What about coffee or yeah lunch is a good idea. Somewhere nice though ;-) The choice of place could be crucial. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HipHopaholic Posted March 14, 2004 Share Posted March 14, 2004 take her out to play Dance Dance Revolution, muahahahahahahahahha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
[hxc] Posted March 14, 2004 Share Posted March 14, 2004 i would suggest bowling :D maybe its just cause i like bowling, its very fun :D but only saturday night drunken cosmic bowling mwahahaha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrentNewbury Posted March 14, 2004 Share Posted March 14, 2004 Hiya all, In my opinion, don't worry about your character. As you've already said, you're friends so she must already like you as a person. I'll only echo what has already been said before; "be yourself". Why don't you try going for coffee? A relaxing atmosphere is always a good start, so Starbucks would be a good choice. There are plenty of alternatives if you don't have the money for Starbucks or either of you don't like coffee. To be truely honest, all these suggestions are good, but it's what comes from your heart that matters. Try thinking of what you would like to do for a first date. If you both enjoy the date, this shows you like similar things. - Tranquility +Anarkii 1 Share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjiggag23 Posted March 14, 2004 Share Posted March 14, 2004 dinner is nice too. unless it seems to serious for you. go to a charlie brown's or olive garden or somethin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjiggag23 Posted March 14, 2004 Share Posted March 14, 2004 your lover is cuuuuuuuute! (Y)just go for a lunch and talk. damn, she is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smartguy Posted March 15, 2004 Author Share Posted March 15, 2004 I like these ideas. Lunch sounds good. But i asked her. She said lets not eat. I know why. Shes afraid to mess up. Well i am to. I ask if she wants to go for something to Drink and chill. She said its to boring. Then i said go shoping. :blush: She said no :D. Now im stuck. I live in Brooklyn, NY. There isnt alot of things to do as other places. So little more help guys. -For the girls and guys Getting your nails done and talking to a guy. Because she wants to get her nails done. I said i would love to go with her. I might get my nails done too. jk. But you know what i mean Thats goods / OK? or Really Bad? Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomis_nehc Posted March 15, 2004 Share Posted March 15, 2004 umm, well, there are many things you can do. but obviously, you have to see what she would like to do. as for movies, haha, i say it's a bad idea too. but not always, it's only because you're short on time. and it's very dependent on whether the girl enjoys films or not. for me, one of my ex, we actually had a lot of interesting fun when we went to watch a movie together. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smartguy Posted March 15, 2004 Author Share Posted March 15, 2004 Yea. she only likes cartoons movies. Which i find cute. But there isnt any movie that is cartoon that she likes. i try to ask her what she likes. :blush: But it didnt work :cry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
idkfa Posted March 15, 2004 Share Posted March 15, 2004 hang on a sec.... if you've been friends for 2 years surely you've eaten together before, and surely you know what kind of movies she likes. hrm, maybe i read the friends for 2 years part wrong Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magichat Posted March 15, 2004 Share Posted March 15, 2004 (edited) I will atempt to write you a poem my freind Korali your name is like the rolling wind across a open medaow, soft and elgant, peacefull. Tis in this meadow that i walk and is the only place where i can find true peace as i stand here ever entranced by your beauty i wonder however can i be such a lucky man? Tis nothing on this earth that can take my eyes off of you, for with you i share my true love. In you i find my inner peace, you are the pulse of my heart, the thought of being parted from you tears apart the inner workings of my soul, it is for you that i long, For if I were to die then my dieing wish would be to hear that sweet sound of your name korali and if it shall be the last thing i hear in this mortal earth then it will ring in my ears forevermore and i shall be at peace knowing that i was granted by god the ability to love you once and i shall long for you forevermore. Edited March 15, 2004 by Magichat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smartguy Posted March 15, 2004 Author Share Posted March 15, 2004 Wow :cry: that was really good. Thanks Magichat. Thats everything i would say :D but better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Japlabot Posted March 15, 2004 Share Posted March 15, 2004 Go to the swimming pool together hint: Use the spa ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoDaddy Posted March 15, 2004 Share Posted March 15, 2004 (edited) Dude, I don't really think a poem is the best thing, yes it tells her you like her, but you should wait a little before you do that. The best thing is to find something that both of you could enjoy. I am going to school here in Hickville, USA, so I took a girl to a store called the Clay Canvas (make your own pottery stuff), we made a few clay things, painted them, and then went to dinner. Chicks dig that stuff. Like someone said earlier, she already knows you, at least a little bit {chicks look at everybody as husband material, or not}, so be a gentleman, but don't try to overdo it. Find something that is active {not gym active, but not movie inactive} and requires both of you. Maybe laser tag, or maybe air hockey or something at the arcade. It isn't so much what you do, as that you two do it together and it's fun. To make it better, let it be something you have to get back together later to finish, it's the perfect setup for a second date. Like the pottery, we had to go back and pick it up in a few days. Don't fill it up with too much planning, but make sure it's not too empty either. Hope some of this helps out. Good luck man. Edited March 15, 2004 by JoDaddy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magichat Posted March 15, 2004 Share Posted March 15, 2004 he asked for a poem so i gave him one ;( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devila_C Posted March 15, 2004 Share Posted March 15, 2004 no poems...i dont really know any girl that would appreciate a poem in the modern world...:pinch: NO POEMS!!!! unless you're really sure she'd like a poem.....yeah if you already know her, shouldnt u know what she likes? it's probably since it's your first 'date' with her so she'd like it to be a bit different and interesting...flowers?? a little gesture of liking..something small maybe.....and of course do something fun....i'm sure theres lots of things you can do in NY....do you have to stay in brooklyn? how old r u guys btw Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fred Derf Veteran Posted March 15, 2004 Veteran Share Posted March 15, 2004 Wow :cry: that was really good. Thanks Magichat. Thats everything i would say :D but better. Kiss that girl goodbye. Women are emotional. Men are not. Don't be yourself. Be someone better. Be dangerous. Be confident. Tease her, please her. Make her come to you. Dating is about power. Don't put the ball in her court. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoDaddy Posted March 15, 2004 Share Posted March 15, 2004 I wasn't knocking it man, it was great. :yes: Just think that it'd be a little creepy to have a ready made poem on the first date. Sorry if I came across that way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fred Derf Veteran Posted March 15, 2004 Veteran Share Posted March 15, 2004 I wasn't knocking it man, it was great. :yes: Just think that it'd be a little creepy to have a ready made poem on the first date. Sorry if I came across that way. It's way too creepy for a fifth date nevermind the first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magichat Posted March 15, 2004 Share Posted March 15, 2004 (edited) *no more sadness* Edited March 15, 2004 by Magichat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fred Derf Veteran Posted March 15, 2004 Veteran Share Posted March 15, 2004 how bout this....You mean nothing to me. Hand me my paper bag and my handcuffs it shall be done in you is were i will come. Well, I wouldn't use that either but it's LESS likely to scare her away that the other one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magichat Posted March 15, 2004 Share Posted March 15, 2004 (edited) *no more sadness* Edited March 15, 2004 by Magichat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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