arsekicker Posted September 28, 2002 Share Posted September 28, 2002 Originally posted by sphere what has she done? that's the last thing you'd wanna do :right: http://www.dictionary.com/search?q=sarcasm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Huy Posted September 28, 2002 Share Posted September 28, 2002 LOL!! :D this is makin my day hehehehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sphere Posted September 28, 2002 Share Posted September 28, 2002 Originally posted by arsekicker http://www.dictionary.com/search?q=sarcasm http://www.dictionary.com/search?q=sarcasm :p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iliveinbeaver Posted September 28, 2002 Share Posted September 28, 2002 Good lord. I really dunno what to say. Some of should be utterly ashaned of yourself for starters. Is the first thing i will say. Maybe you don't agree with someone's point of view, so what, deal with it, move on, thats life. This was, at one point, a very civil thread, where some people were trying to help out another person. There was good advice and bad, but no one was at any fault. Things started to go down hill there a bit, people jumpin on snipers case, and thats really not right. But hey, people will be people. I go away for a few hours, to spend time with my own girlfriend, and i come back to see appromimately 10 new pages to this thread, and I was astonished as to what I read. Another fellow, Cisco steps foreward and wants help, maybe he shouldn't have said some things he said, maybe others shouldn't either. I'm not one to judge anyone. But this is rediculice. Its like i have wondered into a 3rd grade class, people callin each other doody head, and booger-eaters. I think those at fault should be ashamed that mods had to step in and squelch the problem. This was a great thread, very interesting. Now its devolved in to people bickering and taking cheap shots at each other. NO ONE should be jumping on snipers case becasue EVERYONE has a girl in their past that they were absolutely head over heals for, and if they even mustered the courage to talk to her or not, were in this same situation. If there was an emoticon for sighing i would have used it a lot. I think we all want to see sniper actually ask the girl out. But NONE of you want to do it as much as him, and you know thats the truth. NONE of you. No one is going though more emotion, more stress, more anxiety, and more nervousness then him. All you people jumpin on his case, and makin bets against him, anyone that has a problem with the way things are going for him, find a different thread, and live with it. For everyone that got on Cisco's case, move on. Deal with it. Don;t wine and cry, don't belittle him, just say to him, calmy and kindly either "yes do that" or "no, that would be a bad idea." Everyone of us needs advice from time to time, and none of us would want to receive the kind of treatment that either of these two received. Its the internet, you can act like as bad of a fellow as you want, be as though as you want, it doesn't matter. But honesty, concern, and common decency are constants, and you know it when you see it. Support these guys, try to help them. We were all that scared little kid wantin ask the girl out at some point in our lives. Deny it if you want, but you were, its part of growing up, its part of life. Just like Thumper said "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anyhting." Or something to that effect, i never watched Bambi, but you know what i am saying. There was some honest help, and great advice, redFX jumps to mind, there were many others, but beer doesn't really help the memory much. I think this could be, the most interesting thread i ever took part in on these boards, genuinely interesing, and if it wasn't all of you wouldn't have read it all, and joined in. Its already been tarnished, please don't ruin it. I'm steping down off my soap box now. Sniper, i wish you the best of luck, and you have my full support. People will always nay-say things, and tell you whats wrong. F them. Do what you have to do to be happy. Live you life for you, and no one else, because in the end, its yours, and no one can take it away from you. I met the girl of my dreams 2 years ago. Her group of friends, and my group of friends started hanging out together, and I, fell in love with the girl from the minute i met her, I knew she wa something special. Buti knew that if i stepped out and said something, if i tried something, it would muck it all up. She was staunchly against dating friends, and I was, unfortunately, a friend. So we both went away to school, but kept in contact though e-mail and the occasional (often drunken) phone call. After 8 months of wanting nothing but to be with the girl, it finally happened, we talked it out, and we made it happen. And I can honestly say, that I more in love with her every day of my life. This girl, will, at some given point, be my wife. And one year ago, i had given up, given in. But here i am, happier than i have ever been in my life. Despite people telling me that it wouldn't work, and it would never happen. What was the point of that story? I'm not sure the point I started with (darn beer) but you can take your pick of the things i ended with. 1) Never give up, follow your heart 2) Don't let the words of anyone else stop you from doing anything you want, again, follow your heart 3) If you want something, make it happen, or at the very least, try and make it happen 4) When things seem the lowest, they can only get better Make those of us that support you proud. And we will be proud no matter what happens. For the people that said it won't happen, prove them wrong. I am finally done. Goodnight. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
immit_bud Posted September 28, 2002 Share Posted September 28, 2002 Thread takes eternity to read and you haven't asked! ............ ............ ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ...... ... ............ ............ ..... ... ... ... ... ...... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ............ ... ... ... That's why we have the telephone. :mad: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iliveinbeaver Posted September 28, 2002 Share Posted September 28, 2002 As one last note, this thread had the most views of any regular conversational thread. Only threads with more views are the word association, one word story game, and the monthly deask top threads. I think that speaks for it self in saying it is damn good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
axis Posted September 28, 2002 Share Posted September 28, 2002 What kind of emoticons does she use when you guys IM each other. Hah, why are you asking for dating advice online. Ask the girl out, the worst she can say is no. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vraa Posted September 28, 2002 Share Posted September 28, 2002 whoa.. good thing i found this thread.. cuz i think i finally might get another girl! lol btw.. Imp Fus.. ur 14! ME TOO!!lol and i see u like bimmers.. i like benz'.. german baby!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0zerocool0 Posted September 28, 2002 Share Posted September 28, 2002 phone and tell her what you have been doing for the last week she will then do one of two things 1:say how cute and go out with you 2:say you a nerd and never look at you again ether way i wil not have to come home every night and look at pages of posts to find out if you have done it :( phone her !!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dior_addict Posted September 28, 2002 Author Share Posted September 28, 2002 i thank all of you who stuck up for me. For those who just "diss" me, i don't really care for your. I came on here to ask for advice on what to do. And now your saying i'm "pathetic" and a "loser" for not asking her out? Life is complicated. I might not get everything i want, but if i am to succeed, i will have to time it right. I still plan on calling her at noon. You can say "do it now", or watever, but in the end, i will do it whenever i want. But there is one thing that i am sure of. And itz that you guys supported me the first few dayz, and i really appreciate it. But thereafter, you guyz just "bagged" in me. That, i do not appreciate. But nonetheless, i still appreciate your every response. Good or bad. what does that tell me about you guyz? You care. And i thank you. p.s: 2 hours to go.:. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ahodes1 Posted September 28, 2002 Share Posted September 28, 2002 Originally posted by Sniper34123 i thank all of you who stuck up for me. For those who just "diss" me, i don't really care for your. I came on here to ask for advice on what to do. And now your saying i'm "pathetic" and a "loser" for not asking her out? Life is complicated. I might not get everything i want, but if i am to succeed, i will have to time it right. I still plan on calling her at noon. You can say "do it now", or watever, but in the end, i will do it whenever i want. But there is one thing that i am sure of. And itz that you guys supported me the first few dayz, and i really appreciate it. But thereafter, you guyz just "bagged" in me. That, i do not appreciate. But nonetheless, i still appreciate your every response. Good or bad. what does that tell me about you guyz? You care. And i thank you. p.s: 2 hours to go.:. Its a fact of the Internet- when you say something on the net, little emotion is transmitted. If this were a real world discussion there wouldn't be a problem at all. I think people are just getting frusterated waiting for a result. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buttmanx Posted September 28, 2002 Share Posted September 28, 2002 Sniper: one thing i don't like is regrets. i've had so many of those that you can't even imagine. i've been in your situation before. do what you want to do and don't let regret haunts you. i think back about my past regrets before i went up and ask this girl out yesterday and guess what? she said yes!:D and damn do i feel good listen to the hook in Dru Hill's song called "Beauty" the remix and you will know what i mean when i say regrets Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rathamon Posted September 28, 2002 Share Posted September 28, 2002 dude , you say this woman is "older" , but how much older, i mean you say your 14 and talk about walking her to her "car" which would suggest at least 17,18 to me... and why the big fuss about "asking her out" , just ask her to go somewhere with you , im guessing you wouldnt think twice about asking one of your male friends that... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iCe_2x Posted September 28, 2002 Share Posted September 28, 2002 Originally posted by Murdoc you're right, and im gonna enjoy it like a mischevious little brat too. btw- im a junior I also..am a junior..but we have unique methods for enjoying freshmen...:D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iCe_2x Posted September 28, 2002 Share Posted September 28, 2002 Originally posted by iliveinbeaver Good lord. I really dunno what to say. Some of should be utterly ashaned of yourself for starters. Is the first thing i will say. Maybe you don't agree with someone's point of view, so what, deal with it, move on, thats life. This was, at one point, a very civil thread, where some people were trying to help out another person. There was good advice and bad, but no one was at any fault. Things started to go down hill there a bit, people jumpin on snipers case, and thats really not right. But hey, people will be people. I go away for a few hours, to spend time with my own girlfriend, and i come back to see appromimately 10 new pages to this thread, and I was astonished as to what I read. Another fellow, Cisco steps foreward and wants help, maybe he shouldn't have said some things he said, maybe others shouldn't either. I'm not one to judge anyone. But this is rediculice. Its like i have wondered into a 3rd grade class, people callin each other doody head, and booger-eaters. I think those at fault should be ashamed that mods had to step in and squelch the problem. This was a great thread, very interesting. Now its devolved in to people bickering and taking cheap shots at each other. NO ONE should be jumping on snipers case becasue EVERYONE has a girl in their past that they were absolutely head over heals for, and if they even mustered the courage to talk to her or not, were in this same situation. If there was an emoticon for sighing i would have used it a lot. I think we all want to see sniper actually ask the girl out. But NONE of you want to do it as much as him, and you know thats the truth. NONE of you. No one is going though more emotion, more stress, more anxiety, and more nervousness then him. All you people jumpin on his case, and makin bets against him, anyone that has a problem with the way things are going for him, find a different thread, and live with it. For everyone that got on Cisco's case, move on. Deal with it. Don;t wine and cry, don't belittle him, just say to him, calmy and kindly either "yes do that" or "no, that would be a bad idea." Everyone of us needs advice from time to time, and none of us would want to receive the kind of treatment that either of these two received. Its the internet, you can act like as bad of a fellow as you want, be as though as you want, it doesn't matter. But honesty, concern, and common decency are constants, and you know it when you see it. Support these guys, try to help them. We were all that scared little kid wantin ask the girl out at some point in our lives. Deny it if you want, but you were, its part of growing up, its part of life. Just like Thumper said "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anyhting." Or something to that effect, i never watched Bambi, but you know what i am saying. There was some honest help, and great advice, redFX jumps to mind, there were many others, but beer doesn't really help the memory much. I think this could be, the most interesting thread i ever took part in on these boards, genuinely interesing, and if it wasn't all of you wouldn't have read it all, and joined in. Its already been tarnished, please don't ruin it. I'm steping down off my soap box now. Sniper, i wish you the best of luck, and you have my full support. People will always nay-say things, and tell you whats wrong. F them. Do what you have to do to be happy. Live you life for you, and no one else, because in the end, its yours, and no one can take it away from you. I met the girl of my dreams 2 years ago. Her group of friends, and my group of friends started hanging out together, and I, fell in love with the girl from the minute i met her, I knew she wa something special. Buti knew that if i stepped out and said something, if i tried something, it would muck it all up. She was staunchly against dating friends, and I was, unfortunately, a friend. So we both went away to school, but kept in contact though e-mail and the occasional (often drunken) phone call. After 8 months of wanting nothing but to be with the girl, it finally happened, we talked it out, and we made it happen. And I can honestly say, that I more in love with her every day of my life. This girl, will, at some given point, be my wife. And one year ago, i had given up, given in. But here i am, happier than i have ever been in my life. Despite people telling me that it wouldn't work, and it would never happen. What was the point of that story? I'm not sure the point I started with (darn beer) but you can take your pick of the things i ended with. 1) Never give up, follow your heart 2) Don't let the words of anyone else stop you from doing anything you want, again, follow your heart 3) If you want something, make it happen, or at the very least, try and make it happen 4) When things seem the lowest, they can only get better Make those of us that support you proud. And we will be proud no matter what happens. For the people that said it won't happen, prove them wrong. I am finally done. Goodnight. woah..thats just too much for me to read... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Murdoc Posted September 28, 2002 Share Posted September 28, 2002 Originally posted by iCe_2x? I also..am a junior..but we have unique methods for enjoying freshmen.:D:D b> Whoa, do tell. a good exchange of strategy is always in favor here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redrope Posted September 28, 2002 Share Posted September 28, 2002 Originally posted by iliveinbeaver Good lord. I really dunno what to say. Well you obviously did after righting like a 10 paragraph essay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sp00nman Posted September 28, 2002 Share Posted September 28, 2002 Originally posted by iCe_2x?I also..am a junior..but we have unique methods for enjoying freshmen... b> rape? lol lol... freshmen are nice, but they're a little young. they just look really young. They peak at the end of their freshman year though... Freshman Year - Very young looking, not fully grown Sophmore Year - Grown, look hot, at their peak Junior Year - Sllllllllloooooooowwwwwwwlllllllllllyyyyyyyyy downhill... Senior Year - Decent, but too "mature" and they dont have the look anymore. That's for high school. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sp00nman Posted September 28, 2002 Share Posted September 28, 2002 The best advice I can give is this: Flirt. Seriously, girls love flirts of all kinds. Make lots of girls laugh, start interesting conversations, etc. The key is communication... not how you grease up your hair and wear prep clothing. Sure it helps, but it's not as helpful if you can start up a good convo or flirt. Women love the talk. Why the hell do you think they talk on the phone all day? They love it! Then when you have a girl that likes you, and you like her, approach her about it. DONT BE LIKE ME WHO CONSISTENTLY MISSES OPPURTUNITIES. I back off a lot because I'm the shy type. I'll flirt with a girl and everything goes well until I just stop right there. Something I need to work on is the approach, as in asking a girl out... because I'm really bad at that. oh well. just my 2.3333333333333333333 cents. :D (not funny) :right: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dior_addict Posted September 29, 2002 Author Share Posted September 29, 2002 first of all, i'm 15 and turning 16 in novmeber. (so 1 yr. older isn't that bad rite?) i must of selected the wong year when signing up. And secind of all, i decided not to call her. why? becuz i feel that its more appropiate to ask her out face to face. So i think i'll wait till monday. Now, i know some of you will bash me for this, but i feel this is the right thing to do. So i would appreciate it if you guyz support me on my decision and help me through it. thanks~! :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maeby Posted September 29, 2002 Share Posted September 29, 2002 :*( ah well...I think your right about the face to face until monday... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kennisonxgs Posted September 29, 2002 Share Posted September 29, 2002 Originally posted by Sniper34123 first of all, i'm 15 and turning 16 in novmeber. (so 1 yr. older isn't that bad rite?) i must of selected the wong year when signing up. And secind of all, i decided not to call her. why? becuz i feel that its more appropiate to ask her out face to face. So i think i'll wait till monday. Now, i know some of you will bash me for this, but i feel this is the right thing to do. So i would appreciate it if you guyz support me on my decision and help me through it. thanks~! :) You do that. Don't take it too seriously because most likely there will be one or two or more after her (if you get her at all). Just think about it. If you get with her and you want to marry her, you would have to stay together through major changes for about 10 years before marriage. As for me, I'm glad I didn't take that chance when I was your age. I might not have found my gf if I had taken that chance. Ignore those "bashers" and do what you want. Good luck and keep us informed ;). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DoubleJ Posted September 29, 2002 Share Posted September 29, 2002 I just saw this thread and don't have the patience to read all the post, so here is my .02. It sounds like you have decided to say something and thats a good call. Face to face is good too. When I was in high school their was a girl i liked and I ended up using email to tell her because I had no nerve at all. I kind of regret that, but I put it off for months telling myself I'd tell her in person, but never did. In the end, it is just better to get it out any way you can. As far as signals she may be giving you, who cares? If you like her, then you like her. I doubt that you like her because you think she likes you, and if thats the case, then things probably wouldn't work out anyway. You just need to tell her so you don't keep beating yourself up. Granted, it is easier to tell them how you feel if you think there is a chance they like you back. In all honesty, most guys don't have the nerve to just flat out tell someone how they feel. No matter how it goes, you will feel better about yourself for telling her. And if worst comes to worst, I find that if I ever tell any girls how I flat out told a girl that I loved her they think that is the sweatest thing in the world. And sometimes, if they don't initially feel the same way, having the nerve to tell them how you feel makes them see you in a new light. Good luck. EDIT Oh yeah, watch out for girls out of high school between the ages of 18 and 25, especially those in college. They go crazy and don't know what they want and can trample plenty of men trying to figure it out. Thats a few years off though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
l337hardware Posted September 29, 2002 Share Posted September 29, 2002 and these are the days of our lives.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OrangesOfCourse Posted September 29, 2002 Share Posted September 29, 2002 hey i just saw the title and replyed.. my lazy ass cant read all these posts :p What i have to say: You just know.. its that feeling you get.. you know.. the one like no other in this world..... wait a tick... thats when you become a father/mother.. heh You know.. when she gives you a special look.. and its only at you.. thats how i knew.. :) (well i actually knew her as a friend.. so.. we were close.. but she did not give me the "Friends Look" when she started liking me.. i mean i liked her since we met.. and well i never asked.. but then she was giving me the looks and i went and just asked her out.. and now.. 2.5 years later.. we are still with each other.. um.. we did breakup for like 3-4 months... something stupid i did.. that i would not like to share.. :) so if she is giving you that special look.. you should know :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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