darkmark327 Posted September 29, 2002 Share Posted September 29, 2002 so? you think your situation is hopeless? I have liked a girl I work with for probably close to 8 months except a) she's a senior in college, I'm a senior in HS b) she has since reacquired her HS boyfriend c) I'm shy as hell (i'm surprised i was even able to post this, god bless internet anonymity) as of May, the Junior prom she did not have a boyfriend, when I was developing others' pictures from the Junior prom (I did not attend) she saw him and pointed this out to me. She pointed out how lame this was and then reminisced about the senior prom and said that the would love to go to a senior prom again...naturally I filed this away. This leads to another problem, I have never danced or anything like that. A few months later she was back together with him. I get along with her well, but I mask my emotions well and she has not the slightest idea. To give myself closure, when I go away to college next august (she is going to be an HS English teacher and will not be done with college anytime soon) I will inform her via a letter. I was thinking of sending an anonymous valentine too but wasn't sure if I should...maybe include an appropriate shakespeare sonnet or something (we have spoken quite a bit about shakespeare) this should hold you all over until sniper goes back to school on monday Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystical112 Posted September 29, 2002 Share Posted September 29, 2002 ya whatevers cool w/ u.....just ask her though...my friend wouldn't get off my back till i asked mine...and its a good thing if ppl are pressuring u....u acutally do it...and mine turned out good im sure urs will too.... dun worry if she's a year older... mine goes to uni (1st year) and im in my last year for high skool... so whatever man....she likes u for u age don't matter...unless she like 18 and u like 12 then u gots problems....:s Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phantomAI Posted September 29, 2002 Share Posted September 29, 2002 EDITOh yeah, watch out for girls out of high school between the ages of 18 and 25, especially those in college. They go crazy and don't know what they want and can trample plenty of men trying to figure it out. Thats a few years off though. [/b] Heh, I guess I should watch out, huh....being a college freshman.....the girls here are hot....although I don't go to any parties. Sniper, yeah best to say face to face to her. You have only a hundred and something more school days left. No real rush, I guess. on a side note (should not concern high school students): is it better to be with an older woman, one your age, or younger? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dior_addict Posted September 29, 2002 Author Share Posted September 29, 2002 well, i'm glad that you guys are starting to support me again. i really do think that face -to- face is better, becuz she gets to see ur expression and emotion as you express it. Then, she mite see how much you really care, and she'll say yes. (well, thats me theory anywayz). and my friend in which i duel with (as in yu-gi-oh cards) likes a 17 yr. old, and hez only 15 (16 next yr. not this). Should i tell hime shez too old for him? or should i tell him to go for it, like me?;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dior_addict Posted September 29, 2002 Author Share Posted September 29, 2002 IMO, i think it really depends on wat type ur looking for. For me, i like a girl who is outgoing, intellectual, and the "fun to hang out" type. And, i've found her, but she just happens to be older. thats all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystical112 Posted September 29, 2002 Share Posted September 29, 2002 umm....ya i got a story for ur friend also... my boy...(friend) is dealing w/ one 3 years older shes in uni also... and he's in his last year of high skool... so tell him to go for it whatever its all good...older gurlz r betta Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OrangesOfCourse Posted September 29, 2002 Share Posted September 29, 2002 Originally posted by Sniper34123 well, i'm glad that you guys are starting to support me again. i really do think that face -to- face is better, becuz she gets to see ur expression and emotion as you express it. Then, she mite see how much you really care, and she'll say yes. (well, thats me theory anywayz). and my friend in which i duel with (as in yu-gi-oh cards) likes a 17 yr. old, and hez only 15 (16 next yr. not this). Should i tell hime shez too old for him? or should i tell him to go for it, like me?;) well if he really likes her... then why stop him? i really dont think 2 years matters that much.. now if she were like 25-30.. then yea.. lol :D i would tell him to go for it :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystical112 Posted September 29, 2002 Share Posted September 29, 2002 Originally posted by Sniper34123 IMO, i think it really depends on wat type ur looking for. For me, i like a girl who is outgoing, intellectual, and the "fun to hang out" type. And, i've found her, but she just happens to be older. thats all. straight up....same here... as long as she ain't bigger then u it works...:D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dior_addict Posted September 29, 2002 Author Share Posted September 29, 2002 lol.:p (and i'll tell him that.) i hope he succeeds, then we'll have sumthing in common to talk about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KevinCheng188 Posted September 29, 2002 Share Posted September 29, 2002 Hey all, I guess while we're on the subject of relationships... I could use some advice as well. I'm in my late 20's and this girl is 4 years younger. We knew each other 4 years ago via mutual friends in person originally but then the friendship developed over the net over the past 4 years via AIM/ICQ on a daily basis that we both admitted we're beginning to like each other. Seems like a good thing. Then one day, she said she has this secret to tell me that no one else knows except her best friend and her family. The thing is that she has ashtma and also when she was born, one of her eyes can't see anything at all so she has only real eye. So she asked me the question how I feel? I just told it straight from the heart that I still would care about her and stand by her side as in the song "I Swear" and that it's the inside that counts and not the outside. So I was wondering what the general concensus(sp?) is if this happened to you. Would you just get into the relationship or will you just slowly/quickly move away since other people may think you're a wimp or something for going with someone who has some defects but ofcourse people should be judged by their character and not by what they lack physically. Thanks for your input on this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkmark327 Posted September 29, 2002 Share Posted September 29, 2002 I think it's safe to say that nobody is going to say that they'd wimp out regardless of whether they would or not. But if you've liked her for years then what does a physical defect matter? besides glass eyes are pretty realistic looking for the most part and lots of people have asthma Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystical112 Posted September 29, 2002 Share Posted September 29, 2002 Originally posted by Sniper34123 lol.:p (and i'll tell him that.) i hope he succeeds, then we'll have sumthing in common to talk about. wha?... my friend already has...LOL.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buttmanx Posted September 29, 2002 Share Posted September 29, 2002 Originally posted by kennisonxgs You do that. Don't take it too seriously because most likely there will be one or two or more after her (if you get her at all). Just think about it. If you get with her and you want to marry her, you would have to stay together through major changes for about 10 years before marriage. As for me, I'm glad I didn't take that chance when I was your age. I might not have found my gf if I had taken that chance. Ignore those "bashers" and do what you want. Good luck and keep us informed ;). kennisonxgs is right. don't be too attach to the girl right now. you are too young. if you do and when you too broke up, it's going to mess you up. and plus, it's much easier to do things when you think that there are other girls better than her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sebaz Posted September 29, 2002 Share Posted September 29, 2002 Best of luck man u still have my support like greatest fan of the suckiest team..GO GET HER TIGER!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shockz Posted September 29, 2002 Share Posted September 29, 2002 Well if she smells, bites and jumps on you - i think its a pretty good bet that she likes you. Oh wait - thats for Klingons. lol :p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Almighty1 Posted September 29, 2002 Share Posted September 29, 2002 Originally posted by darkmark327 I think it's safe to say that nobody is going to say that they'd wimp out regardless of whether they would or not. But if you've liked her for years then what does a physical defect matter? besides glass eyes are pretty realistic looking for the most part and lots of people have asthma Asthma is normal but what exactly is glass eyes? And what actually causes that? Never heard that term before. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkmark327 Posted September 29, 2002 Share Posted September 29, 2002 when someone is lacking an eye it's basically a realistic looking replacement, made of glass for aesthetic purposes as opposed to an eye patch...yarrr:pirate: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Almighty1 Posted September 29, 2002 Share Posted September 29, 2002 Originally posted by darkmark327 when someone is lacking an eye it's basically a realistic looking replacement, made of glass for aesthetic purposes as opposed to an eye patch...yarrr For some reason, I thought when the fellow Neowinian posted above, he meant that the real eye was still there but it's just impaired or unuseable. Do they actually put in a glass eye for that purpose even at birth or only when their entire eye is missing? Sounds similar to the cataract lens that is put in during a cataract surgery. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kirsh321 Posted September 29, 2002 Share Posted September 29, 2002 try this: "Hey cindy, could you do me a favor?" "What's that?" "I'm a computer nerd and post to online forums instead of going out and getting nookie [it is imperative that you use the term 'nookie'], so could you hook it up?" "What?" "SMOKE IT, BITCH!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buttmanx Posted September 30, 2002 Share Posted September 30, 2002 Originally posted by KevinCheng188 Hey all, I guess while we're on the subject of relationships... I could use some advice as well. I'm in my late 20's and this girl is 4 years younger. We knew each other 4 years ago via mutual friends in person originally but then the friendship developed over the net over the past 4 years via AIM/ICQ on a daily basis that we both admitted we're beginning to like each other. Seems like a good thing. Then one day, she said she has this secret to tell me that no one else knows except her best friend and her family. The thing is that she has ashtma and also when she was born, one of her eyes can't see anything at all so she has only real eye. So she asked me the question how I feel? I just told it straight from the heart that I still would care about her and stand by her side as in the song "I Swear" and that it's the inside that counts and not the outside. So I was wondering what the general concensus(sp?) is if this happened to you. Would you just get into the relationship or will you just slowly/quickly move away since other people may think you're a wimp or something for going with someone who has some defects but ofcourse people should be judged by their character and not by what they lack physically. Thanks for your input on this. what the hell does a defect matter? we all have defects, and you know it. think how you would feel if you were in her shoes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dior_addict Posted September 30, 2002 Author Share Posted September 30, 2002 love cannot be seen, only felt. Therefore, if you love her, you won't care what her defects are.:ninja: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sebaz Posted September 30, 2002 Share Posted September 30, 2002 ^ amen brother! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SidX Posted September 30, 2002 Share Posted September 30, 2002 Sniper, you said it man..you start spoutin things like that to your prospective woman and you got her in no time...you don't need advice, listen to yourself talk..you gots skillz with words man..now make it happen! wishin you all the best and will watch the thread for updates! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dior_addict Posted September 30, 2002 Author Share Posted September 30, 2002 hehe. I've been practicing love "quote-making" for a while now. Thx for the support guyz.! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
immit_bud Posted September 30, 2002 Share Posted September 30, 2002 Sniper looks like he has what it takes :) ... Hehe... Oh, and before I forget, can anyone update me on the time in the USA... I'm half-way around the world (almost...) and I'm getting confused with time... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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