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Originally posted by sebaz

thanx man :D

darkmark327: u think shes interested in u?..i think u should ask her to prom with u... but thats just me

how? that whole boyfriend thing

plus i could never amass sufficient courage

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After hearing so much about this high school crush you have, I thought I would reflect on all 4 of mine.

1 - The first girl I had a crush on was latina....very hot!! And she didn't notice me at all, which was kinda odd because those were my heavy metal days where I wore nothing but Ozzy shirts and leather pants and listened to lots of Sabbath, Ozzy and Nirvana and what not. So one day I bought her a buggs bunny toy that talks (lol) and I gave it to her and asked her out. She just looked at me and told me she didn't like me in that way and asked if I wanted the toy back and I told her to keep it and walked off to lunch. The next day she told me she wanted to talk to me about something so I went with her to lunch and she just talked to her friends and it was like I wasn't there, so I just got up and left and she ran up after me and said "I'm sorry..." and that's when I said "me too." That was the end of my first crush.

2 - Ahh yes, my second crush was also a latina and she liked heavy metal! So as the stroy goes, I'm still in the 9th grade and this girl is lookin' good to me. I take a different approach. Instead of telling her I like her and see what happens I wait until the last day of school and while I'm walking to her locker with her I say "hey I gotta tell you something, I like you." and she looked at me and said "oh **** you do?" that's when I said "yeah, but you only want to be friends right?" and she simply replied "yeah" and that was the end of that. Although I still find her attractive, but now it's grown to be good friends, which I think is far better.

3 - Hmm...my third crush was yet again latina and this is probably the kind of girls EVERYONE should stay away from. So I like this new girl, she's a freshman and I'm a sophmore now. I like her eyes, they just shine to me. I never ever told this girl I liked her, instead one of my stupid friends called her up and pretended to be me and after that I think she hated me. I tried several times to talk to her and she didn't want to talk to me. The one time she did talk to me was after she flicked me off and I told her "f***k you" and then we had a big arguement after school which the whole school probably heard for about 30 minutes. She called me a poser because I used to be a metal head and was just getting into rockabilly and I told her "you're puffed up with pride.......you ain't worth my time." and I didn't bother after that...Whenever I see that dumb ######, I think of all the times she ****ed me off just because I liked her and she was too self involved to care. Let her go date her 40 year old boy friends......

4. Hmmm.....the last one was really something. My 12th grade year and I'm lookin' for a sexy mama to to rockin' and rollin' with. I see a pretty girl who's light skinned and has curly hairs.......umm....I love curls, and has these eyes that you can just get lost in....and did I mention she's latina too!! Well I noticed she kept looking and smiling at me so I went up to tell her I like her and I was just about to say it when she turned all red and ran off. I guess she has some growing up to do still.....so school was over and I got a job at the Millenium Biltmore as a Banquet Houseman and that was the end of my high school crushes. I never once had a women in high school, now I have 3 girls who want me and I can't choose......hehe.

He that doesn't get much in high school is rewarded with more than he can handle later in life........or just in my case.

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Originally posted by phantomAI

No....Sniper you enjoying your time with your girl that you left all of your fellow Neowinians behind :( . I want to see an ending.

phantom, either that or he didnt do it and is too embarrass to face us:(

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Originally posted by buttmanx

phantom, either that or he didnt do it and is too embarrass to face us:(

He shouldn't be embarrassed, we're all here to support him. Neowin is a caring community..... ;)

Just curious that's all.

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Originally posted by azazel-

If this kid doesn't do this, after 6 pages of encouragement and advice, I swear to god, I'll make it my mission in life to post "pu55y" after everything he posts on here. I'm dead serious. :evil:

a nice, caring community

:rolleyes:

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hehe. hi guyz, i'm back. physics is taking up a lot more time than i expected. so here are the results: I did talk to her on monday, but......... i couldn't bring myself to ask her out. But the good thing is that i'm making progress. And thats the most important thing to me. Everyday i see her, i walk up and say "Aloha!", even though i'm not hawaiian. Every monday, when we have the m.u.n meeting, i alwayz make shure i sit next to her, so we can talk. (this monday, while we were talking, she rested her head on my shoulder for like 10 secs!:o ). During 6th period, i alwayz make shure we have at least 1 decent conversation before the class is over. So.... my goal is to still ask her out. But by taking it one day at a time. And at least i'm making progress!:ninja: and until next time.......:D

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Originally posted by Sniper34123

hehe. hi guyz, i'm back. physics is taking up a lot more time than i expected. so here are the results: I did talk to her on monday, but......... i couldn't bring myself to ask her out. But the good thing is that i'm making progress. And thats the most important thing to me. Everyday i see her, i walk up and say "Aloha!", even though i'm not hawaiian. Every monday, when we have the m.u.n meeting, i alwayz make shure i sit next to her, so we can talk. (this monday, while we were talking, she rested her head on my shoulder for like 10 secs!:o ). During 6th period, i alwayz make shure we have at least 1 decent conversation before the class is over. So.... my goal is to still ask her out. But by taking it one day at a time. And at least i'm making progress!:ninja: and until next time.......:D

I agree that this is a good way to go about it.

Everyone will probably rip on you or something, but they are probably just jealous or something.. I dont know.

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Originally posted by Sniper34123

hehe. hi guyz, i'm back. physics is taking up a lot more time than i expected. so here are the results: I did talk to her on monday, but......... i couldn't bring myself to ask her out. But the good thing is that i'm making progress. And thats the most important thing to me. Everyday i see her, i walk up and say "Aloha!", even though i'm not hawaiian. Every monday, when we have the m.u.n meeting, i alwayz make shure i sit next to her, so we can talk. (this monday, while we were talking, she rested her head on my shoulder for like 10 secs!:o ). During 6th period, i alwayz make shure we have at least 1 decent conversation before the class is over. So.... my goal is to still ask her out. But by taking it one day at a time. And at least i'm making progress!:ninja: and until next time.......:D

Anyone else in here smell a fire? I think something is burning :s

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Originally posted by darkmark327

I think it's safe to say that nobody is going to say that they'd wimp out regardless of whether they would or not. But if you've liked her for years then what does a physical defect matter? besides glass eyes are pretty realistic looking for the most part and lots of people have asthma

Thanks for your input guys. Sorry for taking so long to update everyone but I could use some advice. I was pretty worried friends and family might not like the girl since I am 28 and she is 24 so who knows what can happen. We didn't like each other for years. What happened was we met originally via other friends and one time only in April 1999 and then everything else was online on AIM. We've both just been there for each other during good times/bad times and this May, she decided to pop the question and we became like the online type of bf/gf thing. The next thing is she had me buy some CD's for her for her bday present and then had me make Audio CD's for her by helping her download MP3's and stuff. For that, I sent everything to her home address but the problem is she has only a mom but not a dad so she is afraid her mom might find out someone her mom doesn't know is sending her stuff so she gave me her P.O. Box address instead. What happened instead is that during July, her computer went down so she had her friend who is a guy login as her and gave me messages. From even talking to her friend, it's like her mom is really restrictive as she usually doesn't call people directly. What she does is first do a collect call with a message so the receiving party declines it and then calls her back directly. So last week on the Audio CDR's, it was sent to her friend's company who hand delivered it to her. All of us live in the Bay Area but neither she or I has a car so she depends on that other guy to be her transportation on a daily basis. We were deciding to meet again sometime last week when the dates keep getting pushed back. Originally, we were supposed to meet at the train station on Tuesday at 10AM as she didn't have to work but she got a call to goto work at 6am so she went to work instead and left me voicemail to move it to Wednesday afternoon at the train station when she gets off work. So it was Wednesday afternoon at 3:30pm, we met and the first thing we did is hug each other. and then we took the bus to the

Shopping Mall where we first went to the buffet place for a early dinner. This costed $US20 for the both of us. Then we preceded inside the mall and walked around. We went to Suncoast and she had me buy her a $33 N Sync DVD. The next thing is we went to Wherehouse where she had me buy her 3 DVDs and 2 Sony headphones totalling $83. Then she had me buy her 3 calling cards for $33 in total. Then when we were at the bus stop waiting for the bus, she asked to see my wallet since I guess girls are just curious and she took one of the 3 $20 bills in my wallet for herself. I paid for the rest of the stuff by credit card but is $189 going out one time a bit of a overkill? I mean it's not a problem that it totals that over a certain amount of time but on only one time. It's worst when I have tons of debt to pay off and I'm trying to keep a budget and trying to find a new job. I don't think she did it intentionally since she was trying to make me spend very little money on her but I guess she just had a wish list in her head and forgot all about pricing.

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KevinCheng188...this chcick is totally using you for your cash man...DO NOT BUY HER STUFF...you not even her boyfriend, you just dating her..it's alright ot buy flowers as a gift..or other little tinkets..but this chick is totally tapping you. And I would make dam sure she uses all those calling cards on you..and nobody else...this is rediculous that I even have to post this...you can't be this blind....see the light buddy..your getting jerked off...and not in the good way;)

drop this chick faster then your worst bad habit....

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