mr.dan Posted November 6, 2002 Share Posted November 6, 2002 I've had my share gfs, but the past 2 have proven to be disasters.... BUT I .think. i made the same mistake twice and that mistake is waiting too long. girl #1 -------- we get to the holding hands and everything and start doing more and mroe stuff together outside of school. so one day, we're out at the movies or something and everything just clicks. for some odddd reason i felt that it was not the 'perfect moment' and i decide to wait. later that night some guy asks her out and of courseeee she says yes. they have been going out for over a year now. that coulda been me. at least we're still friends. girl #2 --------- i got really intimate, for lack of a better word, with this girl. we talked for like 6 friggin hours on the phone one night, and at least an hour or two a night. we were like a perfect match. then it gets to the point where we're saying i love you and all that but we have never really done anything just like me and her. anyways, i go to the movies with her that night with my friend matt. what a mistake that was. matt picked up some girl his friend from elementary school or something referred, and it was a disaster. she was the weirdest ugliest girl i had EVER seen. naturally, my friend matt starts flirting with my girl and is totally fckin up my vibe. had he not of been there, i probably would of asked her out, but the whole time i was trying to be smooth and play everything off. it took me an hour just to put my arm around her. so for whatever reasons , i don't ask her out. we didn't talk on the phone at all the week after that horrible saturday just because we were too busy (or so i think). then when we finally do talk, she said something to the effect of "i don't like you as much as i used to," which in my mind meant "i don't like you." and man was i right. i haven't talked to her since, but a week adter that incident she hooked up with my friend. just goes to show you, don't wait! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nl|nighthawk Posted November 6, 2002 Share Posted November 6, 2002 mrdan, that sucks... :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ahodes1 Posted November 6, 2002 Share Posted November 6, 2002 (edited) Anybody have any suggestions for me with my situation: Me and my ex-g/f were together for about a month and a half and then she broke up with me. She said she needed some freedom for a bit. She hasn't been completely honest with me, and my trust in her is a bit wishy-washy... but there's a part of me that says just wait, everything will turn out ok, bu then again there's a part of me that says just move on. This is my first g/f, and I still love her to death, so I'm a little confused and depressed, and I was wonderin if anyone had any suggestions... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkmark327 Posted November 7, 2002 Share Posted November 7, 2002 Who'd have thought the "neowin dating service" would prove such a success? :blink: obviously it's not a success because he still hasn't gone out with her after 32 pages Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkmark327 Posted November 7, 2002 Share Posted November 7, 2002 (edited) LOL now I'm on the other end: a girl that I work with likes me (obsessively, I'm told), but I have no romantic interest in her. Already we've had our breaks overlap for a good ten minutes and it was primarily awkward silence (this was before she told others that she likes me), so I doubt a date would be any different. How do I let her down easy? Or should I just wait a few weeks for this to run its course? I'm too nice to shatter her feelings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RadishTM Veteran Posted November 7, 2002 Veteran Share Posted November 7, 2002 Anybody have any suggestions for me with my situation:Me and my ex-g/f were together for about a month and a half and then she broke up with me. She said she needed some freedom for a bit. She hasn't been completely honest with me, and my trust in her is a bit wishy-washy... but there's a part of me that says just wait, everything will turn out ok, bu then again there's a part of me that says just move on. This is my first g/f, and I still love her to death, so I'm a little confused and depressed, and I was wonderin if anyone had any suggestions... M8 I think you should move on to better things in life, sure it's your 'first love' but as your more exprienced (OK it's your first girl), in that sense, you should feel more confident in yourself and have better experiences :) .... Hope this helps ya :) .... Radish. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark Otto Posted November 7, 2002 Share Posted November 7, 2002 Don't take this the wrong way anyone, but guys, grow some balls. Honestly, just go with your instincts and don't ask for advice from us here. The best advice you can get is from yourself. Again no offense. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RadishTM Veteran Posted November 7, 2002 Veteran Share Posted November 7, 2002 LOL now I'm on the other end:a girl that I work with likes me (obsessively, I'm told), but I have no romantic interest in her. Already we've had our breaks overlap for a good ten minutes and it was primarily awkward silence (this was before she told others that she likes me), so I doubt a date would be any different. How do I let her down easy? Or should I just wait a few weeks for this to run its course? I'm too nice to shatter her feelings. You could let this run its course, but as you said you have no 'romantic interest' in her, so save her the heart-ache and tell her your not interested in a relationship right now :) .... Radish. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RadishTM Veteran Posted November 7, 2002 Veteran Share Posted November 7, 2002 Don't take this the wrong way anyone, but guys, grow some balls. Honestly, just go with your instincts and don't ask for advice from us here. The best advice you can get is from yourself. Again no offense. I agree .... Radish. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phantomAI Posted November 7, 2002 Share Posted November 7, 2002 Don't take this the wrong way anyone, but guys, grow some balls. Honestly, just go with your instincts and don't ask for advice from us here. The best advice you can get is from yourself. Again no offense. easier said than done Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jerichohol Posted November 7, 2002 Share Posted November 7, 2002 Don't take this the wrong way anyone, but guys, grow some balls. Honestly, just go with your instincts and don't ask for advice from us here. The best advice you can get is from yourself. Again no offense. easier said than done it is easier said than done, but u need to experience it at least. Thats the way to learn. :unsure: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AOXOMOXOA Posted November 7, 2002 Share Posted November 7, 2002 i cant beleive this thread is still going... :laugh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dior_addict Posted November 7, 2002 Author Share Posted November 7, 2002 lol... i started this topic on Sept. and i got an overwhelming response of supporters, and fans. hahaha. :laugh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nl|nighthawk Posted November 7, 2002 Share Posted November 7, 2002 487 replies since Sep 23 2002, 02:49 We should start charing for the NeoWin dating service.. $1.00 per post.. :p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinatosk Posted November 7, 2002 Share Posted November 7, 2002 Don't take this the wrong way anyone, but guys, grow some balls. Honestly, just go with your instincts and don't ask for advice from us here. The best advice you can get is from yourself. Again no offense. i totally agree wid ya man :p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Polishrob Posted November 7, 2002 Share Posted November 7, 2002 If you think she likes you then go and ask her out.... that will tell you if she likes you or not . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steven Posted November 10, 2002 Share Posted November 10, 2002 wow...... lol let this thread continue As Sniper's World Turns.... ::music plays:: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QuarterSwede Posted November 10, 2002 Share Posted November 10, 2002 wow...... lollet this thread continue As Sniper's World Turns.... ::music plays:: That's exactly what I was gonna post. :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phantomAI Posted November 11, 2002 Share Posted November 11, 2002 but it's not all about sniper's problems, we have new characters and subplots. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deron Dantzler Posted November 15, 2002 Share Posted November 15, 2002 I hope one of two things happened...The people here who needed advice: #1: Got laid... AND/OR #2: Masturbated... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dior_addict Posted November 15, 2002 Author Share Posted November 15, 2002 hehe, she and i are going to watch Harry Potter 2 tomorrow. We are going to leave skewl at 2:35, buy the tickets (for the 6:45 pm show), and come back, becuz we have stories due for journalism (and we dun want the tickets to be sold out). So we are then gonna work till 3:30, the go up to the long beach town centre. We then are gonna 'kick it' for 2 hours, and eat pho. hehe. (Btw: this isn't a date, yet a casual event. :yes: ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RadishTM Veteran Posted November 15, 2002 Veteran Share Posted November 15, 2002 About time :D, thought the thread was dead, and that sniper got his girl :D ;) .... Radish. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Almighty1 Posted November 16, 2002 Share Posted November 16, 2002 Agree with Radish.... Go Sniper Go! :yes: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dior_addict Posted November 17, 2002 Author Share Posted November 17, 2002 ok, herez wat happened n friday. We left skewl at 3:15 pm, and we drove to her house cuz she forgot her cellphone. So me n her was in her house (alone) for half an hour, while she gets her money, and her cellphone. After that, we decided to go the the town center, to buy tickets for the 6:45 showtime. When we got there, the 6:45 showtimes was sold out, as well as all the other showtimes, up to 9:45 pm. Well, she and i didn't want to watch a movie that late, so we said forget it. We then walked around the town center (like a couple :happy: ) for like 1 hour. We went into diff. stores and stuff. At around 5, we drove to this one guys' house (this is why it wasn't a date, cuz he wanted to watch HP 2 too). It turns out he and his physics partners were builind a bridge for physics. So she played the piano, and i sat next to her to watch and stuff. At 6, we left his house (with him) and we went to eat at a pho restaurant. After that, we couldn't decided what to do next, cuz me n her really wanted to see HP 2 really bad. So we spent half an hour going "waddya u want to do" back n fourth. I finally suggested to go to the mall, to see if they are sold out. It turns out, they were sold out too, so we just watched "Half Past Dead". It was an okie movie. I was supposed to go home at 11 pm, but we were all tired, so we went home at 9:30pm. Well, that was our day. On sunday, we mite try to watch the movie again. She said she was sorry that we couldn't "kick it" more. But it was kewl... Hopefully, it'll be kewler next time. ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
axis Posted November 17, 2002 Share Posted November 17, 2002 (edited) Ok well without reading any of the previous 497 posts before your last one, I will just comment on the last one. 30 minutes is a long time to spend with a girl to find her money and cell phone, to me it sounds like a small invitation. I have no idea how old anyone is but judging from your post and wanting to see Harry Potter, you sound 16-17. I think Long Beach is a mistake too, especially if you are talking about that Center off the 405 (or 605, I am not quite sure). Take a girl to Hollywood, sure it is a little farther but it is an awesome place to go. Walk with her on Hollywood Blvd, look at the Walk of Fame stars, go the the Mann's Theatre and watch a movie or go into the mall and see one there. I did a security camera system there a while ago and I got to go in the balcony of the Mann's theatre, that is how you have a date, no one can see or hear you. She will deffinetly like the stars and the hand/foot prints in the Mann's lobby, just eat before you go there. You will be paying like $15 for a drink and popcorn, literally. You can see some of my work above the cash registers, in the doorway before you walk down the stairs to the mens bathroom and if you had the code behind the door with the keypad. Good luck, I hope you try this out, she is a girl and it is famous stuff, they eat it up. Edited November 17, 2002 by axis Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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