How do you know if a girl likes you?

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Whoa, red the whole thread now and now I'm like :wacko: ...

30 minutes is a long time to spend with a girl to find her money and cell phone, to me it sounds like a small invitation.

Agreed on that m8, I think I'd need about 1 minute to fetch these things, so what to do with the remaining 29? ;-)

So what happened on sunday?

(Or did u mean next sunday, like... 23/11 ?)

Anyways, go for it ;-)

Whoaa, Post #500 in this topic, lol

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man, I forgot about this thread.

Hey Sniper, it looks like you made some progress with her. Come on, she's basically interested in you also, but she won't tell you. You have to tell her. Don't listen to the other guys about that "what'd you do in the 30 min.".

I didn't know Harry Potter was so popular, thought it was a little kids movie...I never read the books. I personally would wait for the new Bond movie.

Personally not many good pho restaurants here in Boston :(, heh, I miss Santa Ana. Eh, just ate pho last week that my mom cooked :D

Good luck, Sniper....you're mission is almost complete.

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you guys really think that she likes me, but aint telling me? remember, this wasn't a date, cuz in the end, we watched the movie with this other dude (her friend) :crazy: . But at least i got to spend an hour with her at the town centre, and half an hour at her house... haha. we didn't do anything though.. she just showed me around her room, and i browsed around it... Her friend whom is a girl.. is telling me to ask her to winter formal, and she says that there is no way she can say no... essh... im so0o scared.... :blush: I think i well.. but remember.. shez a senior (17).. im a sophmore (16)..hehe. Im sending her a gram though. hehe. :D and the story continues.. :laugh:

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you might as well ask her out to the dance, the more you wait.....well you know. Considering the fact shes a senior she'll be off to college in several more months. Hate to see you loose your chance.

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this thread is beyond long.. this is actually someones life unfolding on this web site!! next thing we will know is that he's gonna pop the question...

I just hope she never comes across this website :blink: heheh

well I have to give you props on the last meeting with her... I mean if you didn't make a move.. you just made her even more curious about you (that's if she is interested).

I would definilty ask her friend for some info!! girls network is the most reliable source you can get!! (close friend or best friend that is) :p

another way you can do this is, tell her that you had a great time last time.... maybe we can do it again sometimes... perhaps just you and me ;) and go from there. but I have to warn you.... there is fine line between becoming her g/f and best friend!! go to far and you can never come back (most of the time)

and btw.. I have to say that you have it easy at this point!! your in!! I mean you get to see hear almost everyday!!

so hang in there and be patient.. and listent to that inner voice that tells you to go for it!!

kuddos to you buddy

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Anybody have any suggestions for me with my situation:

Me and my ex-g/f were together for about a month and a half and then she broke up with me.  She said she needed some freedom for a bit.  She hasn't been completely honest with me, and my trust in her is a bit wishy-washy... but there's a part of me that says just wait, everything will turn out ok, bu then again there's a part of me that says just move on.  This is my first g/f, and I still love her to death, so I'm a little confused and depressed, and I was wonderin if anyone had any suggestions...

M8 I think you should move on to better things in life, sure it's your 'first love' but as your more exprienced (OK it's your first girl), in that sense, you should feel more confident in yourself and have better experiences :) ....

Hope this helps ya :) ....

Radish.

life is sure a funny place, I hung on tightly and didn't let go, and guess what-- things seem like they're coming back together... slowly but surely, and she seems to have a much different attitude about things (a much more positive one). Anyone who wonders if waiting a while is worth it, I'll tell you it definitely is if you love the person with all your heart, as you can never stop loving someone... because then you never really loved them.

Lesson to be learned- a little patience goes a long way and will be rewarded.

I do have to agree with the thoughts behind your response though Radish, since normally that would be so true, but I love this girl too much to move on, and she still has strong feelings for me, she just made the mistake of jumping on an opportunity and realized she screwed up big time.

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Anybody have any suggestions for me with my situation:

Me and my ex-g/f were together for about a month and a half and then she broke up with me. ?She said she needed some freedom for a bit. ?She hasn't been completely honest with me, and my trust in her is a bit wishy-washy... but there's a part of me that says just wait, everything will turn out ok, bu then again there's a part of me that says just move on. ?This is my first g/f, and I still love her to death, so I'm a little confused and depressed, and I was wonderin if anyone had any suggestions...

M8 I think you should move on to better things in life, sure it's your 'first love' but as your more exprienced (OK it's your first girl), in that sense, you should feel more confident in yourself and have better experienc:) :) ....

Hope this helps :) :) ....

Radish.

life is sure a funny place, I hung on tightly and didn't let go, and guess what-- things seem like they're coming back together... slowly but surely, and she seems to have a much different attitude about things (a much more positive one). Anyone who wonders if waiting a while is worth it, I'll tell you it definitely is if you love the person with all your heart, as you can never stop loving someone... because then you never really loved them.

Lesson to be learned- a little patience goes a long way and will be rewarded.

I do have to agree with the thoughts behind your response though Radish, since normally that would be so true, but I love this girl too much to move on, and she still has strong feelings for me, she just made the mistake of jumping on an opportunity and realized she screwed up big time.

Glad to see things are pullin together for you m8, waiting in your case did work out pretty we:) :) ....

Good luck with your girl :) :) ....

Radish.

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you guys really think that she likes me, but aint telling me? remember, this wasn't a date, cuz in the end, we watched the movie with this other dude (her friend) :crazy: . But at least i got to spend an hour with her at the town centre, and half an hour at her house... haha. we didn't do anything though.. she just showed me around her room, and i browsed around it... Her friend whom is a girl.. is telling me to ask her to winter formal, and she says that there is no way she can say no... essh... im so0o scared.... :blush: I think i well.. but remember.. shez a senior (17).. im a sophmore (16)..hehe. Im sending her a gram though. hehe. :D and the story continues.. :laugh:

if her friend is telling you to ask her to the dance. its because she really wants you to ask her. her friend is just trying to hurry things along.. dont be so scared .. just ask her.. if she didnt like you she wouldnt be spending so much time with you..

go for it man... we are all standing behind you...

you da man...

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you guys really think that she likes me, but aint telling me? remember, this wasn't a date, cuz in the end, we watched the movie with this other dude (her friend) :crazy: . But at least i got to spend an hour with her at the town centre, and half an hour at her house... haha. we didn't do anything though.. she just showed me around her room, and i browsed around it... Her friend whom is a girl.. is telling me to ask her to winter formal, and she says that there is no way she can say no... essh... im so0o scared.... :blush: I think i well.. but remember.. shez a senior (17).. im a sophmore (16)..hehe. Im sending her a gram though. hehe. :D  and the story continues.. :laugh:

if her friend is telling you to ask her to the dance. its because she really wants you to ask her. her friend is just trying to hurry things along.. dont be so scared .. just ask her.. if she didnt like you she wouldnt be spending so much time with you..

go for it man... we are all standing behind you...

you da man...

That's wot Sniper34123 needed, a good push in the right direction :D ;) ....

Radish.

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tell me what you tink of this? My birthday is nov. 29. the dance is in january. should i ask her to the dance on my birthday, sorta like a present? Or wait till christmas, and ask her to the dance? :happy: I really don't know. Or should i ask her on a regular day, so she doesn't feel obligated to go. :)

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tell me what you tink of this? My birthday is nov. 29. the dance is in january. should i ask her to the dance on my birthday, sorta like a present? Or wait till christmas, and ask her to the dance? :happy: I really don't know. Or should i ask her on a regular day, so she doesn't feel obligated to go. :)

I think you should just ask her on a regular old day, here's why. Christmas is a ways away, and it'll do more for your self-esteem if you don't have to wonder if she was giving you a sort of birthday present, that's the way I look at it at least.

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I didn't know you were two grades below the girl, that sucks. Friends are the best way to get information but I always found that to be kind of the easy way to do it. Just ask her, the worst thing that can happen is she will say no. I don't understand why people are so afraid to ask another person something, only two possibilites. It really sounds like this girl kind of playing with you or testing you, because there is no such thing as an opposite sex friend, she knows how you fell. Hell, give me the girls name and number and your name I will talk to her, Long Beach isn't a long distance call for me.

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ok.. regular skewl day it is.. :)

of course im a virgin. [shows virgin pride] Yea! :D (i don't belive in sex till marriage...)

oh..wow.. testing me? :huh:

her digitz? uhh, i think i'll keep that to myself...:happy:

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Dude, her friend said to ask her? DUDE! YOU ARE SOOOO F-ING IN! DOOOOOOO IT! If there's one thing a girl hates is if you wuss out, that's damn hard to recover from (if at all). Consider she let you into her room for a while and let you sit next to her to play piano, she's comfortable with you being close. I know how hard it is to ask someone out, but she's going to say yes to this. Let me repeat that. SHE IS GOING TO SAY YES So have no fears, and just do it :)

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If you can't figure this one out by yourself then u're in deep poo-doo. What are you going to do if you go out on a date, tell her to hold on a minute and run home to the computer and poll everyone and their brother "Do I kiss her or shake her hand ?" Come on, grow up. If a girl don't like you she'll let you know, then you move on to the next, at the rate you're going you'll still be asking stupid question when some other dude it taking her out.

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If you can't figure this one out by yourself then u're in deep poo-doo. What are you going to do if you go out on a date, tell her to hold on a minute and run home to the computer and poll everyone and their brother "Do I kiss her or shake her hand ?" Come on, grow up. If a girl don't like you she'll let you know, then you move on to the next, at the rate you're going you'll still be asking stupid question when some other dude it taking her out.

Cody

That was harsh... and, well uncalled for imo. He's a lil nervous, why do you need to tell him to grow up? Maybe its you who needs to grow up.

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If you can't figure this one out by yourself then u're in deep poo-doo. What are you going to do if you go out on a date, tell her to hold on a minute and run home to the computer and poll everyone and their brother "Do I kiss her or shake her hand ?" Come on, grow up. If a girl don't like you she'll let you know, then you move on to the next, at the rate you're going you'll still be asking stupid question when some other dude it taking her out.

Cody

That was harsh... and, well uncalled for imo. He's a lil nervous, why do you need to tell him to grow up? Maybe its you who needs to grow up.

I agree. We all go through that time of life when dating is new to us. At first it seems scary to ask a lady for a date because the fear of rejection. You have to remember this though, rejection is not a bad thing. It falls under the category of trial and success/error. That girl won't think any less of you if you ask her out and she isn't interested. The truth is she will probably think higher of you for having the balls to ask her. Women think differently than men. Most men think that women only care about muscles, however the truth is women really like a man who is strong in character and isn't a coward.

Cowards are the people who go through most of thier life without a mate. To make a long story short, be a man and prove to this girl that you aren't a coward. Suck it up and go ask her out. I'm sure you won't regret doing it. If you get rejected you will still feel better because you will know the truth of whether this lady likes you or not and you will feel 3 feet taller because you will know that you were brave enough to ask. If she says no it doesn't mean that you can't still be friends with her. There is absolutley no reason for you to run and hide from her if she says no because like I said, she will not think lowly of you for liking her. Being her friend will enable you o get to know her better vice versa. Getting to know each other better may pave the way into her heart(meaning that if you ask her again she may say YES) or you may find out that she isn't what you are looking for. If she says yes I hope you enjoy yourself on the date. Don't lay it all on her too quick, just follow her lead and it should click in your head when to do what(instincts). When the time comes for the "first kiss" don't be afraid...just do it(it is hard for a first timer). When the moment is right...she will want to be kissed as much as you want to kiss her(SO DONT BE A CHICKEN WHEN THE MOMENT COMES..just like not being too cowardly to ask her out). After the first kiss is out of the way you never know what will happen later on in the night(If you hold back on the first kiss you can rest assured that nothing exciting will happen). Just be a man and instincts will take over.

P.S. This stuff will get easier for you as you get older and wiser(after you've done it a few times).

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Don't ask her, TELL her

When initialising a new relationship, always ensure your jumper settings are correct. Yours should be set to Primary Master, hers to Primary Slave or incompatibilities are going occur

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Don't ask her, TELL her

When initialising a new relationship, always ensure your jumper settings are correct. Yours should be set to Primary Master, hers to Primary Slave or incompatibilities are going occur

"You are going to go out with me."

"Ummm... no"

"Yes, I am in control of you. You have no choice"

haha... something tells me that won't work too well :rolleyes:

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