How do you know if a girl likes you?

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Heya gang, thought I would put my 2 cents into this. I haven't had time to catch up with all the posts in this thread, so forgive me if this has been repeated.

The easiest way to get a girl is to get them curious.

First off, never really talk about what you like. Always turn conversations over to them. Meaning always have them be the ones talking. Put a neutral comment here and there and then ask her a question. Make sure you never reveal too much about yourself. Let her talk. Always redirect things to her. This drives ladies wild because they're really really curious. If done right, you'll really get them going everytime.

One of the easiest ways to pick up a girl is to go over to her and say "Hi, whats your name?".

Like last month, I'm at a bar with a friend and I see this girl. She catches me looking at her so I smile. She smiles back. Instantly I go over to her and say "Hi, whats your name?". She says "Hi, my name is jenny" (used the name jenny to protect the inocent :p).

So anyways, I tell her "Thats a beautiful name. Say, do you come here allot". She just started going into how she really doesn't drink but her friend made her go with her and blah blah blah. So I say "Since you don't like going to bars, what do you like to do for fun?"... anyways, the conversation kept going. I never revealed anything about myself, not even my name. I just kept asking her question after question based on her replies.

At the end of the night I said: "It was nice meeting you jenny, I'll be seeing you around. Take care." I left before she could say anything.

I quickly wen't into the restrooms where she couldn't follow me. As soon as I came out of the restrooms, she was there waiting near the door. She said "Excuse me, but I never got your name". I told her my name and she handed me her phone number (she wrote it down while I was in the restrooms and she was just waiting to give it to me).

I must say, she's a pretty wild girl and we're still seeing each other.

Women above everything else are: 1) curious 2) talkative 3) always looking for a challange. What you need to do is satisfy all three of those needs.

All you got to do is never reveal too much about yourself. Let them find out information over time (if the women is the one, she'll know everything about you eventually).

My number one rule is for each 1 thing they find out about you, you have to learn 10+ things about them.

Also, another fun thing to do is setup a date (its best to do this on the first date). But during the day time. Like a lunch date or a coffee break. Then call them the day before and say "I'm sorry but I can't make our date, something came up. Maybe we can go out some other time." Keep it short and say goodbye. This drives girls INSANE! They keep tinking, why did he break the date. Does he not like me? Did he find someone better? Is something wrong with me? Am I not attractive enough?

9 out of 10 times, I've had the girl call me back the next day to make a new date (and man, do they have awsome and crazy stuff planed on those dates). See, women think the worst when you break a date (especially when you just met). They think they have to go and prove themselves to you so they do some really wild and fun stuff ;) (and I don't mean sex on the first date... although that does happen [insert smiley smoking here]).

Most of the time, they reveal their heart to you and trust you right off the bat which earns you extra bonus points.

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because they never look at you :( its ALWAYS the guy in back and you look like a complete dumbass when you point at yourself and she just looks at you like your a crackpot :cheeky:

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because they never look at you :( its ALWAYS the guy in back and you look like a complete dumbass when you point at yourself and she just looks at you like your a crackpot :cheeky:

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I'm sorry but I can never take girl advice, because every girl in the world is different. If that wasn't the case then only one man in the world will be able to have children. Every girl has different emotions, pleasures, moods, and thoughts. You just have to find the one that matches up with you.

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Originally posted by phantomAI

How do you know if a girl is looking at you and not some guy behind you? err....just curious.

Look into her eyes. You'll know if she's looking into yours.

Also, smile. If she smiles, you know she was looking at you.

Always and I mean ALWAYS look into her eyes. Whenever you talk to a women, always look into her eyes.

Looking into her eyes tells her you're either 1) not afraid of them, or 2) don't care about them. Women will try to find out which one (they always do). Try not to reveal too much... it'll drive them insane. Especially if they think you don't care about them. Then they'll be insecure and they defenses will be down. And they'll show you why you should care about them.

Don't tell her you don't care or brush her off. Just let her make her own crazy asumptions (women always think the worst first).

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Originally posted by Laffer USA

I'm sorry but I can never take girl advice, because every girl in the world is different. If that wasn't the case then only one man in the world will be able to have children. Every girl has different emotions, pleasures, moods, and thoughts. You just have to find the one that matches up with you.

True, all girls are different, but the rule of 3 always applies. Women are 1) curious 2) talkative 3) looking for a challange.

Doesn't matter what personality, emotions, moods, pleasures, skeletons in the closet, or psychological problems they have. The rule of 3 applies to all women.

Women are always on the defensive when they meet people. You need to knock down that defensive barrier for them to show you who they really are and what they like.

Please the rule of 3 and that barrier will go down before you even know it. Then its up to your personality/character and hers to see if your compatible.

See, the major problem with guys is that they don't know how to knock down that barrier. So when they date, they're scoring negative points because the female defensive barrier is there.

You should always knock down a womens defensive barrier before your first date. Don't do it over the phone. Do it the first time you talk. Then you can get on some real dates and really get to know each other.

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hrm ... i think u may want to back off a little .. she probably knows you like her .... you might be in "friendship zone" ... i don't mean to be the party pooper, but u need to keep her guessing (like what redFX said). Avoid her for a few days .. she will miss the attention :ninja: i think you have too much exposure right now.

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Damn, whens this kid gonna find out..im interested now lol. wierd but hey, its neowin every1s interested in the forums..

Tell us the results, Mr. neowin man

Tell us the results tonight

Well, were all in the mood for a melody

And you got us feelin alright.

When u find out snipa, holla back. Pe@ce

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i too am living a soap opera with a girl......this girl i met we talk for hours on the phone every day....we say we love eachother.....and we were supposted to go bowling this weekend but hurricane isadore is here! oh no! I was goignt o ask her out then but its gonna be flooded everywhere this weekend......im so anxious to ask her out.....so should i do it on the phone or not?

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Originally posted by macatak911

i too am living a soap opera with a girl......this girl i met we talk for hours on the phone every day....we say we love eachother.....and we were supposted to go bowling this weekend but hurricane isadore is here! oh no! I was goignt o ask her out then but its gonna be flooded everywhere this weekend......im so anxious to ask her out.....so should i do it on the phone or not?

ask her over the phone to come over so you can cuddle with each other during the hurricane. She'll thank you for being there. ;)

What do I know.....

Yes this thread appeals to a lot here on Neowin. I know my life is lame.

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Originally posted by macatak911

i too am living a soap opera with a girl......this girl i met we talk for hours on the phone every day....we say we love eachother.....and we were supposted to go bowling this weekend but hurricane isadore is here! oh no! I was goignt o ask her out then but its gonna be flooded everywhere this weekend......im so anxious to ask her out.....so should i do it on the phone or not?

oh please, no. don't introduce more character into the soapie...

we won't be able to keep up with what's going on!

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oh please, no. don't introduce more character into the soapie...

we won't be able to keep up with what's going on!

this thread can last forever. new season, new characters, same problems....lol

...about that non-interested tip. I met this girl during college orientation in the summer. We talked a bit....first time a girl talk to me. I wasn't really nervous....just causal talk like school, summer. She even gave me her e-mail for some reason :D. First day of class, she waved to me and asked to see my schedule. She saw it and said we have two classes together. So I'd figure she was either being nice seeing how pitiful I might be or actually showing interest. Now she transferred out of one class and rarely comes to the other (class is early in the morning). We haven't talked to each other awhile. I think I kind of pretended to ignore her. She's probably no longer interested if she ever was. She's pretty IMO, but I don't think I'm her type.

Now I shall shelter myself behind my computer and books.

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Now she transferred out of one class and rarely comes to the other (class is early in the morning). We haven't talked to each other awhile.

That sounds fishy. Either she really really didn't like you and wanted to avoid you, or maybe it could be a prank.

Either that or its a wierd ass coincidence (spel?).

Forget about her man, go to the local hangout and talk away at some girls.

Since your "New" at this, how about going to the library and talking to some of the ugly girls. Do it just to be friends and to get experience. Learn to be yourself in front of women. When you see that perfect number 10, you'll have enough experience to talk to the her.

One more tip for everyone here. I call it the 3 second rule. When you come eye to eye with a women and smile, if she smiles back, you got 3 seconds to get your butt over there and start a conversation. Otherwise, you already lost. Trust me on this one, you got 3 seconds. This shows your confident and not scared (something every [yes, every!] women likes).

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Originally posted by redFX

That sounds fishy. Either she really really didn't like you and wanted to avoid you, or maybe it could be a prank.

Either that or its a wierd ass coincidence (spel?).

Forget about her man, go to the local hangout and talk away at some girls.

Since your "New" at this, how about going to the library and talking to some of the ugly girls. Do it just to be friends and to get experience. Learn to be yourself in front of women. When you see that perfect number 10, you'll have enough experience to talk to the her.

One more tip for everyone here. I call it the 3 second rule. When you come eye to eye with a women and smile, if she smiles back, you got 3 seconds to get your butt over there and start a conversation. Otherwise, you already lost. Trust me on this one, you got 3 seconds. This shows your confident and not scared (something every [yes, every!] women likes).

yeah, I should get over it

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